lost attraction

You love your partner. You care about them deeply. But somewhere along the way, the fire that once burned bright has dimmed—or maybe even gone out completely. You find yourself asking, “Why don’t I feel attracted to them anymore?”

If you’re in a long-term relationship or marriage, this experience isn’t uncommon. In fact, studies show that desire naturally fluctuates over time, and external pressures—like work stress, daily routines, and even social media distractions—can drain intimacy without you even realizing it. (more…)